Assalamualaikum & Hello,
Wedding Anniversary ticker is up, so does the friendship's ticker! (Does it relevant to put engagement ticker up too?Tak perlu lar kan..dah kahwin pon kan.)
Haven't receive any raw or edited pictures for 2 of my wedding ceremonies, so this entry could be the 'appetizer' ;p (Baca Bismillah dulu nak mengadap entry panjang ni)
Wedding dates are all pre-set by me and agreed by Big Boss way before engagement took place. Thinking of good Hijri date and not on school holidays, hence 11.05.2013 would be my choice of date for solemnization and the rest will follow..konon nanti tak bertindih tarikh kahwin dengan member,sekali SAMA satu set dengan tarikh Sha!
With slight of change in venue setting, the dates has to be brought forward or whatnot to accommodate the 3-weeks of wedding ceremonies.Nak tak nak I ikutkan jua..
On another note, being the first grandchildren to ever get married was(is) such a BIG thing (at least for our family) !!
First, everyone seems to have their own planning going on in their mind on how the ceremony should be.
Second, budget can go overboard due to last minutes add on/changes.
Third, me have no says on whatsoever related to the wedding! (In my case,mostly decided by the elderly/parents.I told them my general idea and what i don't like/like and they will continue from there.)
Fourth, repeat all of the above.Stress darab 20 kali!
Despite having to go through all those hiccups, I was (am) very thankful and so fortunate to have all the extra helps that I needed back then.Alhamdulillah...
As a start, documentation, meeting with marriage official & mosque arrangement being arranged by my parents solely.Tahu-tahu jumpa tok kadi untuk short briefing..
-Planning nak buat telur pindang as door gift,terus di add on dengan marshmallows in small jar (ni planning nenek)
-Konon nak berkhatam Al-Quran,tapi dengan speed aku bekerja,apatah lagi mengaji, lets forget about it!Replaced lak dengan Majlis Berinai Kecil..
-Decide wedding card pon I serah bulat-bulat kat both parents!My part, fill in the forms, and submit!
This is what we called "Lazy wedding planning"!Dah kata semua diaorg nak buat,I kata ok tak ok je..bersyukur sudah! Not a good place for B2B planning!!
Things that I regretted sangat dalam syukur2 ni, left HDPM and started new job a month prior to wedding. Due to that, new management tak allow AL or Marriage Leave within 3 months of working! Stress balik fikir aku nak spa bagai then nak rush to hometown utk wedding preparation!Big Boss pon in same condition malah no leave can be plot till probation ends in November! Maka, honeymoon ke honeystars ke segala jadah honey tunggu EOY!
I guess luahan hati i sampai sini saja..nak gambar tunggu post lagi satu!
Oklar, nah satu jeee
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| Relieved face kononya! |
Till then!
